People can

change completely when they have a child.

Find the will to live, be a good parent, ect ect.

Why is it that when people find the will to live because of love for a partnership it's bad and dangerous but for a child is acceptable.            

When whatever fate led you here, there are ways to not become pregnant and other ways to avoid that.

But love just happens. 

And even if it gives you the will to wash dishes, cook meals and brush your teeth, I see nothing wrong with that.